Me: girl who did we kill in our past lives to have such bad things happen in our lives
Friend: I don't know girl but I think maybe the Chief's eldest son
Me: He must have been the only son girl because things like these don't just happen
And so on and so forth! You get the gist.
There so so many situations in our lives that we do not understand and sometimes can not even comprehend. There are usually two routes that people take, route A (self blame) and route B (blame others or the next person). So let me give an example of each route some of us will take. Route A - what did I do wrong? What did I do to deserve this? Why am I being punished? Others route B - they did that too me on purpose? They have always had it in for me? I was not treated fairly I was always singled out, is it because of my colour?
Let me give you a personal example:
I started 2014 on such a high personally, spiritually and mentally. By the 6th day of 2014, I was brought down to my knees like a box carried upside down emptying all it's contents onto the floor. I could not understand it, 1 minute got dream job next minute dream job gone. I couldn't even comprehend the situation I just started to pick my self up. The so called friends disappeared with the so called dream job (I know who my real friends are). My world collapsed on it self and all I could do was sit their until the rable finished then I started picking me up. I didn't immediately take on route A or B for me that came last but because of the kind of person I am I didn't dwell on it too much because I had a life and career to rebuild.
A week after dream job disappeared, I had 5 interviews lined up and in course of two weeks got 4/5 offers. I was chuffed, I could not believe it. I thought I had it good before but I was mistaken what I had before was just right for that situation. What I have now well is more than I dreamed of hence not a dream job but one above that. Friends! What friends, I still got my friends from uni and my family they are friends enough. I would rather have 1 true friend than 10 only in your face friend and forgotten once outa sight.
So the moral of this personal confession is when you don't understand why certain things are happening pray, eat & sleep I tell you and in that order.
"Everything works out for those who trust in The Lord"
So many things have rocked me to the core in a space of 4 months but that will never break my spirit. I will get up and work hard for me because no one else will, not even family.
I admire your tenacity. This is very inspirational and I relate to your struggles. Keep your chin up you're doing great :)
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ReplyDeleteWhat a very lovely and inspiring post. Keep on going...hugs! x
ReplyDeleteThank you Jemma, appreciate that x
ReplyDeleteIt's so hard to stay positive when things arent going your way, this is a fab post!
ReplyDeleteCorinne x
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Beautiful post and so inspiring! xx
ReplyDeleteThis is a great reminder!!! :) Thanks for sharing and I hope things start looking up for you! I know how frustrating it is when nothing seems to go right. That was me in March, but the very last day of the month, things started going right and there have been a few stumbles along the way, but most things have been a lot better!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much x
ReplyDeleteI am glad to hear that thank you
ReplyDeleteI hate when things feel that way. Luckily things can always get better. :) Keep the trust!
ReplyDeleteI needed to read this today. I've had a terrible week. Thank you for this : )
ReplyDeleteI love that first quote. Thanks for sharing! :)
ReplyDeleteThank you x
ReplyDeleteSuch a great reminder!
ReplyDeleteGlad I could help and I hope things improve for you x
ReplyDeleteThanks Kelsey, things always get better in the end x
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear that x
ReplyDeletePreach it sistah! :-)
ReplyDeleteThanks x
ReplyDeleteYou're so inspiring!
ReplyDeleteWow. Seriously, this is the kind of post that changes my day, kicks my ass and gets in going in the right direction! Proud of You!
ReplyDeleteSometimes you just have to keep heading in the direction you know to head, one foot in front of the other, until something makes sense. Glad to hear everything is turning out in your new job! Here's to on to bigger and better for the rest of the year!
ReplyDeleteThank you Renee that means a lot x
ReplyDeleteThank you namesake, glad I could help x
ReplyDeleteThank you Lindsay, that's all I am doing 1 foot in front of the other. Here here!!
ReplyDeleteAww congrats! Everything happens for a reason! It's funny when you think you have lost out and the all of a sudden all these good things fly your way. Your story is similar to what I have experienced this year. Very inspirational post!
ReplyDeleteThank you! I am glad it's inspiring people! There is always light at the end of the tunnel x
ReplyDeleteLove this. I think it's really hard to accept that I don't know how things are going to work out and often don't have control over them. You're right, though, trusting in the Lord helps so much. Thanks for this!
ReplyDeleteYou are most welcome Stefani x
ReplyDeleteThank you Alice, I appreciate that greatly and it's good to know people who have gone through the same x
ReplyDeleteno problem =)
ReplyDeleteGreat quotes and it definitely left me thinking! XO
ReplyDeleteThanks Kristine x
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