tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post3034980315301537957..comments2023-06-04T15:31:02.780+01:00Comments on ::The Myrabev Life::: Week 21: Relationship Advice ~ You Know its worth it when...Anosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10637196266202729425noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-39155100253254546752014-12-10T18:41:19.942+00:002014-12-10T18:41:19.942+00:00Sorry to hear that hun i can not even imagine, I k...Sorry to hear that hun i can not even imagine, I know moving on sucks but one thing at a time and just take care of you.Anosahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10637196266202729425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-58055911143056533492014-12-10T18:37:54.658+00:002014-12-10T18:37:54.658+00:00It definitely does with a willing partnerIt definitely does with a willing partnerAnosahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10637196266202729425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-58279357757013513302014-12-10T18:37:23.960+00:002014-12-10T18:37:23.960+00:00Hard is the only easy to understand word i could t...Hard is the only easy to understand word i could think of at time of writing but i agree its not hard but challeningAnosahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10637196266202729425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-57297059847848534332014-12-10T18:36:37.358+00:002014-12-10T18:36:37.358+00:00Being willing to put in the effort Esther is the r...Being willing to put in the effort Esther is the reason it's working because if only one is dragging it forward it's bound the fail so I am happy to hear this.Anosahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10637196266202729425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-10835747289324817892014-12-10T18:35:37.508+00:002014-12-10T18:35:37.508+00:00Thank you this gives me hope, I will always rememb...Thank you this gives me hope, I will always remember to be kind and considerateAnosahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10637196266202729425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-12027556883804403972014-12-10T18:35:00.859+00:002014-12-10T18:35:00.859+00:00Staying connected is very important in any relatio...Staying connected is very important in any relationshipAnosahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10637196266202729425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-21646796425598966652014-12-10T18:34:30.028+00:002014-12-10T18:34:30.028+00:00And the idea i am trying to explain, be happy with...And the idea i am trying to explain, be happy with you first then this opens up avenues to love othersAnosahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10637196266202729425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-19470461437086946332014-12-10T18:23:19.088+00:002014-12-10T18:23:19.088+00:00I am glad that you're both blessed to have eac...I am glad that you're both blessed to have each other, always remember to do something for the other that you used to do in the beginning. Anosahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10637196266202729425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-23049870779597200082014-12-10T18:10:37.115+00:002014-12-10T18:10:37.115+00:00I agree it takes a lot more than just love to be a...I agree it takes a lot more than just love to be able to make the relationship work. Respect is definitely keep so is patience, perseverance, trust and communication.Anosahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10637196266202729425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-40446828739226917542014-12-10T12:39:17.691+00:002014-12-10T12:39:17.691+00:00I needed to read this this morning.. Currently goi...I needed to read this this morning.. Currently going through a divorce.. reading all these comments make me sad or that I didn't try hard enough to fight for what I had. But what I've learned over the last 3 years, it takes two to make a marriage work, you can't do it on your own. But moving on sucks, but it will be so worth it in the end.. At least, that's what they tell me..Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14889387194001405423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-87293119733094153552014-12-06T08:24:10.929+00:002014-12-06T08:24:10.929+00:00Im in my longest relationship yet and like you, ha...Im in my longest relationship yet and like you, have stopped romanticizing relationships like they do on tv and in the movies. Maintaining a good, lasting relationship is first and foremost HARD WORK, and a very humbling experience overall. But if you found the right partner, the hard work I believe definitely pays off. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13026891928208444997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-80675898557226216602014-12-05T16:47:09.264+00:002014-12-05T16:47:09.264+00:00I have been married for over 21 years and it has b...I have been married for over 21 years and it has been difficult sometimes but we have managed to whether those storms. I never think of it as being 'hard' no relationship should be 'hard' but it does have challenges. I am happy we have those valley's because it makes those peaks that much better.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00033561007081296196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-3628516478634930982014-12-05T02:54:29.424+00:002014-12-05T02:54:29.424+00:00i don't think any relationship is ever easy.. ...i don't think any relationship is ever easy.. especially when it involves two flawed people who will make mistakes and hurt each other. that's just part of human nature no matter how hard we try to be loving and caring. :) i think the thing that has kept our marriage alive is knowing that marriage is hard work and being willing to put in the effort to work on it. which makes it sounds like a drag.. but I think the best and worthwhile things take work.Esther JuLeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02913265997617945920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-82635119844808954202014-12-05T01:45:46.474+00:002014-12-05T01:45:46.474+00:00I've been married for 21 years. It's not e...I've been married for 21 years. It's not easy but it is worth it. I'd not trade a day of our lives. The most important thing to remember is to be kind and considerate in your relationships!Dinahttp://myunentitledlife.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-38201055873188020902014-12-05T00:45:47.265+00:002014-12-05T00:45:47.265+00:00I think relationship are hard – period! Sometimes ...I think relationship are hard – period! Sometimes even friendships are a lot of compromise and give and take. I also think as people grow, relationships change. And it’s very important to stay connected to your spouse and not grow apart. Amy@Will Run For Ice Creamhttp://mrsglassrunning.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-63450423624982932232014-12-04T23:11:04.097+00:002014-12-04T23:11:04.097+00:00I agree with your statement about having to put yo...I agree with your statement about having to put yourself first. So, many people don’t look after themselves in the relationship, which is why I feel personally, many end. If you are not happy with who you are there is no way that you can possibly be happy with anyone else. Victoriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04083583854184511234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-11152223190484791452014-12-04T20:51:00.000+00:002014-12-04T20:51:00.000+00:00Relationships take a lot of time to nurture and gr...Relationships take a lot of time to nurture and grow. I'm truly lucky (blessed) to have a man in my life that is my best friend. We genuinely enjoy being around each other on a constant basis...and we are total opposites...but have enough in common to keep us going strong. For example, he is impatient and rushy-rushy, while I take my time and don't like to be rushed. So, for instance when it comes to home improvement projects...he's splashing on the deck stain while I'm still reading the directions. But, we both love movies and traveling. We've been together for 16 years, and hope to get married in Italy. We used to do greeting cards all the time in the beginning of our relationship, and after reading your post...realized that I've stopped. Maybe it's time to start again :)Yona Williamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04661104349650032168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-18157282397041237212014-12-04T14:12:53.145+00:002014-12-04T14:12:53.145+00:00Relationships are HARD work. I've been married...Relationships are HARD work. I've been married for five years, and I've known my husband for 10 years, and we've had some incredibly good moments and some very, very low moments in that span. It's easy to be loved up in the first few months of a relationships, but learning how to balance things in the long run takes patience, perseverance, and respect. Great post! :)Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07467149664376768999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-9989023577664330032014-12-04T10:29:29.454+00:002014-12-04T10:29:29.454+00:00I am happy that this post has helped and sorry tha...I am happy that this post has helped and sorry that you going through these difficult times, I think prayer should be number one call and then speak to him and see if he wants to work on it 50/50 you pulling all the weight and him not being accountable is not how relationships should work. I know from personal experience how hard it is but I also think the willingness from both parties determins the outcome be it good or bad but at least you tried and not just walked away. Anosahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10637196266202729425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7770884182829468078.post-86518142222402153932014-12-04T09:40:37.042+00:002014-12-04T09:40:37.042+00:00I needed to read this post Myrabev. Lately I have ...I needed to read this post Myrabev. Lately I have been so unhappy, I feel so let down by my other half and he has done things which are just so unacceptable and hurtful... (coming home at 3.15 am with lipstick on his neck :( ) I am at breaking point and so unbelievably unhappy at the moment. I love him so much and try my best for this relationship but it takes two people to make things work and all the points you've stated above, especially trust, is so fundamental for a good relationship. Fionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14739624491973752005noreply@blogger.com