Week 52: Personal Confessions ~ What your heart fails to reveal the pain will



Firstly I will start this post with a confession - I am obsessed with Korean Drama/movies, it may have something to do with their so adorable language or the storylines that you can relate to (though at times I feel like breaking my ipad when you can clearly see that the girl is silly for falling for the annoying mug when the fun and dependable guy is right there ha telly for you). It was during one of my favourite drama that I learnt something that has since stayed with me, the drama is called 'Master's Sun' its adorable and scary!! sneak peak watch episode 4 the beginning when she wakes up in bed with the CEO and she tells him that waking up at strange places is common occurrence for her that one time she woke up at the cemetery - now they show a clip of people at the cemetery paying their respectives when she wakes up behind the grave with frightening hair and yawns loudly what cracked me up his how fast the people run - I am actually laughing right now thinking about it.


Anyway I deviate..

So as I was saying during this drama I learnt this important lesson, 'what your heart fails to reveal the pain will'. Things have not been going great for me this year emotionally and personally and I could not figure out what my heart is saying or how I should move forward and this message resonated with me so much.

'What the heart fails to reveal, the pain will'


Sometimes in life we go through so many things and most times we do not know how to deal with the situation or how to move forward, I know how hard it is to see clearly sometimes. I always say its easier for someone outside to see inside clearly but those inside do not always have that advantage point. I had a friend who was going through a rough time and I could see clearly what was wrong and as much as I wanted to point out the wrong parts I realised its not always an easy pill to swallow when someone tells you what you probably don't want to hear or worse you get accused of trying to cause trouble. I think all we can do is be there for those people, do not be quick to point out the obvious sometimes its best to play it by ear. I have had 'friends' who when I noticed something and me thinking I am being a good friend voiced the concerns and got accused of trying to cause trouble though later down the road the 'friend' realised I was only looking out for her but was too sorry too late even though I am not one to hold a grudge. 

Life is not always black and white, there are too many gray areas and we need to decide what is worth the risk. There are people who come into our lives for the season (life is like a season) and move on, we need to be grateful for those people because they help shape us. Those who are meant to stay for a lifetime they will come at the right time.

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::The Myrabev Life::: Week 52: Personal Confessions ~ What your heart fails to reveal the pain will

Tuesday, November 25, 2014

Week 52: Personal Confessions ~ What your heart fails to reveal the pain will



Firstly I will start this post with a confession - I am obsessed with Korean Drama/movies, it may have something to do with their so adorable language or the storylines that you can relate to (though at times I feel like breaking my ipad when you can clearly see that the girl is silly for falling for the annoying mug when the fun and dependable guy is right there ha telly for you). It was during one of my favourite drama that I learnt something that has since stayed with me, the drama is called 'Master's Sun' its adorable and scary!! sneak peak watch episode 4 the beginning when she wakes up in bed with the CEO and she tells him that waking up at strange places is common occurrence for her that one time she woke up at the cemetery - now they show a clip of people at the cemetery paying their respectives when she wakes up behind the grave with frightening hair and yawns loudly what cracked me up his how fast the people run - I am actually laughing right now thinking about it.


Anyway I deviate..

So as I was saying during this drama I learnt this important lesson, 'what your heart fails to reveal the pain will'. Things have not been going great for me this year emotionally and personally and I could not figure out what my heart is saying or how I should move forward and this message resonated with me so much.

'What the heart fails to reveal, the pain will'


Sometimes in life we go through so many things and most times we do not know how to deal with the situation or how to move forward, I know how hard it is to see clearly sometimes. I always say its easier for someone outside to see inside clearly but those inside do not always have that advantage point. I had a friend who was going through a rough time and I could see clearly what was wrong and as much as I wanted to point out the wrong parts I realised its not always an easy pill to swallow when someone tells you what you probably don't want to hear or worse you get accused of trying to cause trouble. I think all we can do is be there for those people, do not be quick to point out the obvious sometimes its best to play it by ear. I have had 'friends' who when I noticed something and me thinking I am being a good friend voiced the concerns and got accused of trying to cause trouble though later down the road the 'friend' realised I was only looking out for her but was too sorry too late even though I am not one to hold a grudge. 

Life is not always black and white, there are too many gray areas and we need to decide what is worth the risk. There are people who come into our lives for the season (life is like a season) and move on, we need to be grateful for those people because they help shape us. Those who are meant to stay for a lifetime they will come at the right time.

Now that we have that off the chest, do not forget I have two giveaways ongoing and you have twice the chance to win by enter the widgets below.
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34 Comments:

At 26 November 2014 at 08:56 , Blogger Sophie's Plus Size Wonderland said...

Life is too short to worry about little things, enjoy it!

 
At 26 November 2014 at 09:39 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Thank you Sophie, it truly is too short and I am grateful for the life I have

 
At 26 November 2014 at 12:22 , Blogger Samantha Angell said...

I definitely agree that some people come for a season and others stay much longer. OFten, the people who stay for a season may change us the most!

 
At 26 November 2014 at 15:18 , Blogger Amanda RunToTheFinish said...

life is not always black and white, amen!! one of my favorite quotes though is about how if we didn't have bad moment we wouldn't cherish the good

 
At 26 November 2014 at 16:28 , Blogger Amanda Britten said...

I feel like as you get older you are careful with who is worth having in your life, if you are not appreciated then maybe move on. I know now that I have kids, I just don't have time for negative people or drama.

 
At 26 November 2014 at 18:22 , Blogger Angelic Sinova said...

I love this! Life is too short to worry and wonder "what if" or "what could have been." It's important to get going and surround yourself with positive people and positive vibes <3

 
At 26 November 2014 at 20:06 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Could not agree more, some people are just for the season

 
At 26 November 2014 at 20:06 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

I agree but moments help us appreciate the good moment

 
At 26 November 2014 at 20:08 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

That is so true, I think when we were younger you kind of didnt put much thought into people but now we only need those who appreciate us and contribute to our well being as we do them

 
At 26 November 2014 at 20:08 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Positive people and positive vibes is the motto lol, thanks

 
At 26 November 2014 at 23:25 , Blogger Amanda @ MoveLoveEat.com said...

Life is so short, all we can do is try to live it the best we can. I always try and be positive and be grateful for the things I do have even when some things aren't working out so well!

 
At 27 November 2014 at 00:39 , Blogger CourtneyLynne said...

Omg absolutely love this!!! Being positive gets you so Much further in life!

 
At 27 November 2014 at 02:10 , Anonymous Donella Crigger said...

It's definitely easy for our friends and family to spot our pain when we're unable to express it sometimes. Within a little over a year, my mom and one of my brothers passed away, and I just couldn't deal. I'm glad I had good friends who could recognize my pain and help me through it.

 
At 27 November 2014 at 03:17 , Blogger Esther Ju*Lee said...

haha you have no idea how UNkorean this makes me feel! i feel like everyone around me watches korean dramas.. and then they ask me for suggestions since i'm korean.. but i never know what's good bc i haven't watched in forever! you'll have to tell me your favorites, so i can check them out. :)

 
At 27 November 2014 at 16:52 , Blogger Annemarie Leblanc said...

Good and bad stuff will always happen in life, but it's never about how many times you fall but the amount of times you get right back up!

 
At 27 November 2014 at 21:08 , Anonymous Real Talk Moms said...

Yes, I agree 100%. People do come into our lives for a season and there is a reason why they appear.

 
At 28 November 2014 at 01:37 , Blogger Julie @ Director Jewels said...

Definitely true - people absolutely come into our lives for a reason. It's important to keep a positive spirit!

 
At 28 November 2014 at 04:39 , Blogger Liz Mays said...

I can't always understand why things happen in the moment they're happening. However, I usually see the reason later.

 
At 28 November 2014 at 06:28 , Blogger Kath Rivera said...

Good luck to all joining the giveaway. Enjoy life and I hope people will always learn from his/her mistakes

 
At 28 November 2014 at 06:34 , Blogger My Thirty Spot said...

I think now that I am in my 30s, real relationships are what are important to me. I think we start to really value positivity in people.

 
At 28 November 2014 at 06:57 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

I think its important to be appreciative of both the good and the bad but sometimes we forget that during the good and only remember during the bad times

 
At 28 November 2014 at 06:57 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

True say, its all about positivity

 
At 28 November 2014 at 06:58 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

I am so sorry for your loss and glad you have good friends and family to help you through this hard time

 
At 28 November 2014 at 06:59 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

hahaha lol you have no idea how korean obsessed I am, not only the drama but the food and the culture in general too love it.

 
At 28 November 2014 at 07:00 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Absolutely, it's the getting back-up that counts the most

 
At 28 November 2014 at 07:00 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

It's a sad thing to acknowledge but it's so true

 
At 28 November 2014 at 07:01 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Though not always easy it is important for our own well being

 
At 28 November 2014 at 07:02 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

When they are happening it's not always clear, after some time it becomes so clear you end up laughing why you struggled with it so much

 
At 28 November 2014 at 07:02 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Could not have worded it better myself

 
At 28 November 2014 at 07:02 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

So true, I will be in my 30's in 3 years time and I have realised that too

 
At 29 November 2014 at 04:48 , Blogger Michelle Hwee said...

Haha, I totally agree with these! Confessions ;)

 
At 30 November 2014 at 05:50 , Blogger Lavende L. said...

Its so true that it is sometimes easier for people outside of ourselves to see what we dont!

 
At 1 December 2014 at 21:27 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Thanks

 
At 1 December 2014 at 21:28 , Blogger Miranda Myrabev said...

Absolutely and sometimes its for the best when they intervene but other times does more harm than good

 

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