Relationships: This R/ship is between two people NOT plus the world

Hello peeps!!! So recently I had a momental relapse in judgement and I lost my self control which in most instances I would brag its one good quality I possess. What had happened was for over 6 months some unhappy people have just been trying to make me as unhappy as them and I usually ignored them people it really didn't get to me or even scatch the surface. But then one day they decided since talking about me wasn't doing anything they decided attacking my partner would do it and congratulations to them they found the switch because I lost it and I was fuming but since beating people black and blue is illegal I thought I will vent on Facebook and I did. Now I feel horrible not because I defended my relationship but because I stooped to their level. 

If you've read or watched my videos you will know have mentioned how hard relationships can be and extra stuff from people out to get you doesn't help. Relationships are between two people not us and the world, what have learnt in the last couple days is that I really do not have to justify my relationship with my partner to anyone if you ain't God or Jesus then sorry I ain't listening I will listen to the wise not to people who only think that we should all be miserable as them.

So if you experienced or are experiencing hard times in your relationship due to outside influence just remember relationships are between two people. Firstly look after number one, that's the two if you then conquer the world together. 


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::The Myrabev Life::: Relationships: This R/ship is between two people NOT plus the world

Sunday, December 08, 2013

Relationships: This R/ship is between two people NOT plus the world

Hello peeps!!! So recently I had a momental relapse in judgement and I lost my self control which in most instances I would brag its one good quality I possess. What had happened was for over 6 months some unhappy people have just been trying to make me as unhappy as them and I usually ignored them people it really didn't get to me or even scatch the surface. But then one day they decided since talking about me wasn't doing anything they decided attacking my partner would do it and congratulations to them they found the switch because I lost it and I was fuming but since beating people black and blue is illegal I thought I will vent on Facebook and I did. Now I feel horrible not because I defended my relationship but because I stooped to their level. 

If you've read or watched my videos you will know have mentioned how hard relationships can be and extra stuff from people out to get you doesn't help. Relationships are between two people not us and the world, what have learnt in the last couple days is that I really do not have to justify my relationship with my partner to anyone if you ain't God or Jesus then sorry I ain't listening I will listen to the wise not to people who only think that we should all be miserable as them.

So if you experienced or are experiencing hard times in your relationship due to outside influence just remember relationships are between two people. Firstly look after number one, that's the two if you then conquer the world together. 


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2 Comments:

At 10 December 2013 at 03:16 , Blogger Brittnei Washington said...

Aw! So sorry that you feel bad about venting on facebook. There have been times that things about facebook or what people do have annoyed me to the point where I wanted to put it on social media, but I just don't. I know that the reason why I'm on social media is for my blog and not so much for personal venting :) You are right. You do not have to justify or explain your relationship to people, especially people who seem to not really care about you. Hang in there! I'm sure this will blow over and now that you've learned something, I know you must feel great to be able to pass it on to someone else before they do the same thing. :)

Thank you for sharing with us at Countdown in Style! Don't forget to stop by Friday to see if you are featured! xo

 
At 10 December 2013 at 06:54 , Blogger Miranda Malanga said...

Thanks Brittnei! I am feeling better having shared what have learnt. Thank you for your wonderful words.

 

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